I, and many in the faith community network I'm part of, have come from environments where from good motivations at the core, there has been lots of pressure for people to be involved and run Sunday school, youth group, be on committees etc but where that often means people doing things from a sense of guilt or duty.
Moving away from that (and towards other things), we have considered it much more important for people to do things because they have a need for it (and invite others into that) or to have a passion for it. So if no one feels the energy for something then it doesn't happen. I have been a supporter and promoter of that.
I'm not sure about it anymore - probably more accurately, I am moving from that place. I don't think that is the path of discipleship. I am moving more to thinking what's appropriate to ask the questions of "what is needed in this setting" and "what can I offer / what is God calling me to offer". The key difference in this is the focus on others not the focus on self. I know so deeply that it's in giving our lives that we find our lives (rather than in looking for our own lives) and I think that what we/I have been living in for a while actually is something that is a different path to that. I don't think now that it's the path of discipleship. I certainly don't think it's the path of the cross and resurrection - the path of life.
Thankfully, God works through all sorts of things and I've seen much fruit of the perspective I have had / been leading in but for me it has assumed that the foundations are missional and outward looking and more and more I realise that is an unfair expectation for most people. It's hard to be discovering that you disagree with some key perspectives you and others around you have lived in.
